Every single person thinks he/she is the most justified individual. Some people say it is okay to smoke marijuana, but not cigarette. Some people say cigarette is a lot better, since it doesn't damage your brain. Some people drink beer, some not. Some men even think it is a sin to stare at women's eyes. There are people who urge us to invest for the afterlife, they scream religious prophecies and everything, while there are also people like my atheist roommate, who think it is a complete nonsense.
During my last winter break, I got a big fight with a friend (now ex-friend) who said that he got bugged by what I did. Though I personally believe what I did was really simple and caused no harm to anybody, he had exaggeratedly gotten mad so so bad. He thought he cared a lot about me as that he called me simple minded, immature, and real-friendless. I was very offended by his words and I tried my best not to lose my temper. And know what, it turned out he was the one who yelled at me, defriended me on facebook plus other social networking services, and eventually slammed my room's door. I could careless about that, he was never a full-time friend anyway. It is just sad to know, it's true that some people's maturity just doesn't follow up their ages.
See, I am not an ethical relativist, but, I strongly believe that we simply can't judge. We are just the way we are. We value different norms since, probably, we came from different background, were raised in different environment, or got influenced by different inspirations. And I think that is simply just how it works, everybody is fine by their own way.
Judging is truly overrated, especially the inauthentic judgement developed from someone/something else, it is just hypocritical. We can't interfere with someone's belief, indeed, I think it is wrong to just say things about it. My religion taught me to believe what I think is right to me and let others believe what they think is right to them, oh, I am really proud to embrace this everyday. Can't people just say 'oh, okay' to something they dislike, think about their own lives and start fixing themselves by their own way, instead of declaring war and condemning the opposing party. Can't they? I can.
